Original article posted on January 26^th by Cailloux

• Don’t judge. Value the behaviour, not the person.

• Relate by comparing and exchanging, in the desire and in the commitment to change what we need to change for the relationship’s sake.

• Understand the meaning of every relationship as a mirror and as an experience for personal growth.

• Prepare for listening to yourself and to the others.

• Get out from one’s own point of view in order to extend the visual horizon (misunderstanding, misinterpretation, misconceptions, rigid schematic approaches, biased views, strong stances…) and become available to the clarification.

• Try to understand what is behind the controversy (accepting the other’s fragility from the perspective of willingness to provide assistance and support).

Translation by Carlotta Cimatti